Sure, folks are more open and agreeable in a small town than in the
big evil city... but then again you don't find the Ted Kazinski (sp?)
types in the big city either... or those Jonestown/Waco/etc. tyes much
either.
Every place in the world has it's charms and it's pitfalls. The
exercise is to find both and be willing to put up with what you don't
like so that you can enjoy what you do like.
Just my $.02 from the 'burbs.
On 10/7/05, Wes Will <wwill at siu.edu> wrote:
>>> Is it the small town that makes the diff? Something in the air? I
>
>> Could be- in our small Minnesota town our mailman has biscuits for the
dogs
>
> It is a small-town thing. Most definitely. Warmth in wooden form, for
sure.
>
> The comments about the job market and economy are also correct. It's
> sluggish here-abouts.
>
> I was born and raised here, in the north end of the American south,
> near
> the confluence of the Wabash, Ohio, and Mississippi Rivers. We get to
> drawl if we want, but standard English works too. The weather?
> Summers
> are sticky, winters are mild with maybe one or two snows and some ice
> now
> and again come February.
>
> I have since lived for at least some few weeks (or years) each in a
> lot of
> diverse places; San Francisco and Monterey CA, Berlin (it was West
> Berlin
> at the time), Tokyo, London, Paris, Marseilles, Frankfurt, Hoechst,
> Wiesbaden, Nice, Venice, Johannesberg, and Hong Kong. Short-term, one
> or a
> few days, in over a hundred more different cities and towns.
>
> I'll take a really small town over even a medium-sized city, any day.
> Even
> with the economic problems.
>
> City people seem to be all screwed up in the head somehow. When they
> laugh, it isn't about anything funny. Overcrowded, over-stimulated,
> too
> noisy, too smelly, too bright and brash, too rude, too dangerous, and
> that's accepted as the norm for some reason. It's okay to not be able
> to
> walk in the park at night without taking the risk of losing your life.
> It's okay to have drug deals going on in your schools and on your
> street or
> just down the block. It's normal to not know any of your neighbours,
> to be
> afraid all of the time behind multiple locks, bars, alarms, and guarded
> doors. It's accepted etiquette for everyone to avoid eye contact with
> the
> people on the sidewalk around you. A friendly "Howdy!" is cause to run
> quickly away. It's normal to hear about someone, whose only error was
> that
> he made eye contact or said "Howdy!", being gunned down in the street.
>
> That's not normal. That's truly, seriously, SICK.
>
> I moved back here after almost ten years of bouncing around the world.
> I'll never leave, unless it is to some place even smaller. So I can't
> get
> twelve kinds of Thai food within fifty yards of each other. Wah, wah,
> wah.
> I can cope with that.
>
> It's quiet here. You can step outside any time of any day or night and
> take a deep breath of clean air. The deer roam the streets, along
> with a
> dozen other wild animal species, right in town. (The coyotes are
> getting to
> be a nuisance.) They're seeing bears and cougar again, just a few
> miles
> from here, and the hawks and eagles are getting just plain thick.
> Ivory-billed woodpeckers have been seen again just a very few hours
> south
> of us.
>
> I let my kids and now my grandchildren play anywhere in the
> neighbourhood
> or in town, without worrying that some screwball is going to snatch
> them
> away, rape and kill them, or even just bother or frighten them.
>
> My pedigreed Newfoundland dog ran off from the kids' house where we
> had her
> kennelled while we were away for a couple of days; somebody brought her
> back to our house, they knew whose dog it had to be, and they never
> once
> thought of stealing her or selling her to some lab for whiskey money.
> Or
> eating her, we don't have a "China Town" thought there are several
> Asian
> immigrant families around. The person who returned the dog turned
> down an
> offer of some cash for her trouble and gasoline.
>
> We actually had a couple of idiots from Chicago come here and try to
> get
> some sort of gang crap going a few years back. Didn't last long, and
> they
> probably recovered from the attempt, but maybe not and who cares? They
> left, and that was the whole idea.
>
> Our problems are large to us, laughable to city folk, small enough to
> be
> manageable. The worst one seems to be the stupid rednecks (rednecks
> are
> tolerable; it's the stupid part that makes it a problem) with extremely
> noisy trucks and motorcycles and rude behaviour. Most of the truly
> rude
> ones seem to have recently visited or lived in a city....
>
> We straighten them out, a quick call to their parents (who went to high
> school with me, more often than not) and they quieten right down. Now
> and
> again, when the parents are just as stupid, it takes a call to
> somebody's
> old granny, and that fixes that for sure. You don't mess with your
> granny,
> she'll thump ya.
>
> Every now and again, some bad-boy types from St. Louis, Chicago, Kansas
> City, or the like, try to slide in here and cause trouble; once in
> awhile
> we have stupid fools (there's that 'stupid' bit again) that get
> themselves
> all wrapped up in methamphetamine (but that seems to be dying down -
> these
> are the really dumb ones, they have all died because meth ages you
*quick*).
>
> Other than that, life's pretty quiet. Not idyllic, that would require
> a
> bit more money, but it's close. My wife's out of school early, and
> she's
> home with the grand-wiggles making cookies that look like bees and
> giraffes
> and such, and I'll be gone home in an hour to join in and mess with the
> kids and the dogs and other critters. My garnddaughter and I are
> making
> dog treat cookies, using canned mackerel. She calls the tail sections
> in
> the cans "fish butts."
>
> Life could be a lot worse than here in small-town Nowheres-ville.
> Yeah, it
> would be nice to get a little more pay, but not nice enough to put up
> with
> living somewhere large and ugly.
>
> Been there. Done that. Got the scars. I'll stay poor and on the
> small
> end of things.
>
> --
> wes will
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