[rescue] silencing a sparcserver 1000

Lionel Peterson lionel4287 at yahoo.com
Sat Jan 10 09:27:15 CST 2004


--- Nadine Miller <vraptor at promessage.com> wrote:
> Brian Dunbar wrote:
> 
> > I intend this in the nicest, gentlest way possible.  If your girl
> > friend has problems and requires an 'understanding' about your
> > hobby then you're going to have problems .. big ones .. later on
> > in life.
> 
> If relationships didn't have problems there'd be no
> reason to have $ExpensiveHobby?

Naw, IMHO the hobbies help define the person, not provide escape from
other problems. ("I'll take up model ship building in bottles because I
like it, not becuase it keeps me from dealing with my problems in my
relationship." OTOH, "I will get *more involved* in my pre-existing
hobby of model ship building in bottles because I can't/won't deal with
the problems in my relationship." From the outside, it can be hard to
tell the difference.)


=====
Lionel

"I am not into examining other peoples' dumps..." - Sheldon T. Hall

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