Arranged marriages: Re: [geeks] Stupid people rant

[Peter L. Wargo]

On Wed, 13 Feb 2002, Nina Bersamina wrote:

> Uhm must be something in the air.
> 
> I have been seriously freaking about about my marriage
> date in January.  I am not totally in lust with my
> boyfriend, do you really need to be to marry?  Isn't
> loving the person and admiring their qualities good
> enough?  Do you really have to have the urge to jump
> his bones all the time?

Certainly not.  In my experience, the passion mellows over time, but the
sex gets better.  Just remember, you only spend so much time in bed, so
you better be happy with the person outside of it.

> Am I freaking out? 
> 
> Am I getting married?

Ask yoursef this: Will this person still be someone I want to be with 50
years from now?

-Pete