[rescue] Sigh

[Linc Fessenden]

On Fri, 7 Jun 2002, Bill Bradford wrote:

> To be honest, I recommend living with someone BEFORE you marry them - theres
> no worst time to find out you *cant* live together than right after the 
> honeymoon is over.
> 
> Bill

If you love someone, you can live with them.  There is no such thing as a
"magical marriage"..  All marriages require work and compromise to be
successful.  That's the biggest problem marriages face now - devorce is
too convenient and people don't *have* to work out their differences.  The
relationship can never grow without a little adversity - builds character
in a person and in a marriage too.
  Think about all those arranged marriages occuring in 3rd world countries
and the ones of yesteryear..  Those people had to work things out because
they were gonna stay together one way or another.

I could go on but I won't.  I just see a lot of my friends marriages
failing because they won't work on it with their spouse.  They let bad
times tear them apart instead of strengthening their resolve.

My $.02

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-Linc Fessenden

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