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[fernande at internet1.net]

Dave,

Sacrifice?  Yes, but I am not quite sure how to say it.....it needs to
be reasonable, and both of you should know each other enough before
hand, otherwise as you say, you don't have any business being with each
other.  The sacrifice can go other way too, sacrificing that space in
the living room, for an electron microscope!   I am trying to think of a
quote I read, but can't seem to remember at this hour in the morning
(1:52 am).  

Junk was a term my ex-room mate used a lot, about my stuff.  He was
always calling my computer stuff junk.  I did keep too much stuff spread
around our room.  I wasn't lucky enough to have my own room, the 3rd
roommate had that!!  Anyways, since I wasn't committed to them, they
eventually booted me, and I was glad to go.  I didn't love them, because
they are guys and that would be gross, so I wasn't going to sacriice in
the least.  Now a wife on the other hand, I'd pitch my computer off the
my 3rd floor balconey, well maybe that is a bit of an exageration :-)  

Hopefully, I haven't made you too upset.  I don't know how to put
everything down into text, as I havn't thoroughly thought it out, and it
is past my thinking time today :-)

Still no Sun for me yet :-(

Chad Fernandez
Michigan, USA

Dave McGuire wrote:
>   Guys...let those wives know that this "junk" (Christ, what an
> insulting but _frequently used_ word!) is important to you...no matter
> what they think of it.  Marriage doesn't have to mean "sacrifice the
> stuff that you like".  Compromise?  Of course!  But sacrifice?
> 
>                Respectfully,
>                -Dave McGuire